Just remember one thing, don't spend and spend. Its just a reward to look forward at something, so that when it reached one year, you already have 12 rewards lining up for yourself. At least you have something that you can buy for yourself once in awhile and something to look forward to.
Think first what you really want to buy, maybe a clothes, gadget, shoes, or anything that you may think of and take it as a goal to buy it.Or surprise yourself, go on window shopping and buy the first thing that you see that you want and you are done. Remember, don't spend it all, you might regret it.
Shopping really relax a persons mind, its something worth achieving because you can buy things for yourself and no one is there to decide what or where to buy it. You control yourself with your money.To avoid spending it all, set aside your savings and only bring the money that you are going to spend for that day. Too much spending is not worth all your effort and its not rewarding at all.
Achieve something for yourself, buy and save at the same time. It doesn't mean that you have to buy imported stuff every month, just buy things that is affordable and you might use for everyday at work, home, or any places that you might go.Just remember to save money for your future and reward yourself from time to time. It is something to look forward and something to be proud of. At least you earn money and buy things for yourself too.
You can also buy something for your love ones, just simple things that you can afford, it doesn't have to be expensive. It is better to give than to receive, but also give something for yourself. Living this kind of lifestyle is worth living.